Maintaining any form of relationship, such as marriage or a romantic partnership, requires significant dedication and effort from both parties involved. This becomes increasingly tricky for individuals in the public eye. Despite the constant pressure from demand for fame, invasive paparazzi, and constant surveillance, some manage to navigate this reality quite proficiently. These individuals foster robust and thriving relationships that remain unshaken despite their celebrity status.
Here’s a roundup of LGBT couples who have successfully managed their relationships in spite of the daily scrutiny they face.
Ellen DeGeneres & Portia De Rossi
Ellen DeGeneres was one of the initial celebrities who bravely disclosed her homosexuality publicly. In 1997, when she made this announcement, the world wasn’t ready to accept it and consequently, she lost her talk show. Years later, she found her partner, Portia De Rossi, and they tied the knot in 2008. Today, Ellen hosts her own talk show, which is one of the most popular and successful ones, boasting high-profile guests—including presidents.
Elton John & David Furnish
Elton John encountered his existing significant other in 1993 during a dinner event in which they were both attendees. Following this meeting, they began a relationship that spanned 12 years before culminating in matrimony. In 2005, they made history as one of the inaugural pairs in the UK to enter into a civil partnership, which eventually transitioned into a same-sex marriage in 2014 when it was formally sanctioned in the UK. Their union continues to this day and they’re reputed to have one of the most solid relationships amongst celebrity couples.
Jodie Foster & Alexandra Hedison
Renowned television star, Jodie Foster, has always maintained a secluded personal life throughout her career, never publicly addressing her private affairs. But, when the time came to come out as gay, she chose an extremely public platform – during an acceptance speech for an award. This declaration came two months after having started a secretive relationship with Alexandra Hedison. The private nature of their love tale continued until 2014, when they tied the knot.
Cynthia Nixon & Christine Marinoni
The character of Miranda from “Sex and the City”, a successful lawyer, was something that resonated personally with Cynthia, as it embodied her own strength and determination. Just like Miranda, Cynthia had her own cause that she fought passionately for – marriage equality. This led her to cross paths with Christine Marinoni, an education activist, in 2004. Their shared passions sparked an immediate connection, which blossomed into romance. In 2011, their family expanded with the birth of their son, followed by their official marriage in 2012.
Ricky Martin & Jwan Yosef
The revelation of Ricky Martin’s homosexuality shattered many female fans’ hearts. His admission was perhaps the most shocking as he was a singer who always had a host of girls in his music videos and was constantly in their company. However, in April 2016, he crossed paths with artist Jwan Yosef. Their relationship quickly progressed to an engagement, and during an appearance on The Ellen Show in January 2018, he shared the news that they had officially tied the knot. Given their commitment, indications are that their marriage is built to last.
Kristen Stewart & Dylan Meyer
Kristen Steward, best recognized for her role in the highly acclaimed romance series Twilight, had a lengthy relationship with Stella Maxwell. Following that relationship, she quickly got back into the dating scene, this time with screenwriter Dylan Meyer. Steward’s fame in the entertainment industry is widely established and the specifics of her film appearances and roles don’t require elaboration. Conversely, Meyer is most recognized for her contribution to the screenplay of films such as XOXO and Loose end. Currently, their relationship appears to be flourishing and there is anticipation of an impending wedding in the near future.
Anderson Cooper & Victor Lopez
Anderson Cooper stands as one of the most prominent figures on CNN. Incredibly, his association with the network has even increased its recognition. The news anchor’s admission of his homosexuality did not diminish his popularity. He maintained a joyous nine-year bond with Benjamin Maisani before it ultimately ended. However, Cooper was able to move forward cheerfully after the long-term relationship. Currently, he is romantically involved with Doctor Victor Lopez from Texas. Despite the distance, both of them are dedicated to making their relationship successful.
Ellen (now Elliott) Page & Emma Portner
Instagram has evolved into a social network platform that brings people together. It is through this platform that Ellen Page encountered her present partner. Emma Portner’s dance captured her attention, which led to them establishing communication and eventually dating. This relationship evolved into love, culminating in their marriage in January 2018. Portner has established herself as a prominent dancer, who features extensively in music videos and live performances. Her notable works include performance with Justin Bieber, which undoubtedly enhances her marketability. Today, the couple resides in New York City.
Tom Ford & Richard Buckley
Discussing enduring celebrity romances, one that stands out is between Tom Ford, the renowned designer in high fashion who has established a strong reputation and created a luxury brand. He’s been committed to his present companion, Richard Buckley, since 1986, which is roughly 33 years ago. Their bond has deepened over the years and in 2012, they welcomed their son, Alexander John “Jack” Buckley Ford, via surrogacy. As Ford’s career in design involves much travel, the couple have residences in various global cities such as London, New York, Italy, LA, and Santa Fe.
Cara Delevingne & Ashley Benson
Cara Delevingne has always been open about her sexual orientation. In her career so far, she has had relationships with numerous women, however, she currently appears to be dedicated to a single person. She is in a relationship with Ashley Benson, who is renowned for her performance in the TV series Pretty Little Liars. The pair have been spotted together in public frequently, making no effort to conceal their relationship. Delevingne’s bond with Benson seems particularly strong as, in one interview, she revealed that she has never allowed anyone else to get as close or know her as deeply as Benson does.
Neil Patrick Harris & David Burtka
If you are familiar with the ultra-popular TV series How I met your mother, then you must know that one of its leading roles is Neil Patrick Harris. Being secretly engaged for whole 5 years with David Burtka was no obstacle for this relationship to succeed. After those 5 years, they both came out and publicly announced that they were a couple. The wedding took place back in 2014 and since then, their family has grown to number 4 people. They are parents to 3
children and everything is working just fine for them.
Luke Evans & Jon Kortajarena
Luke Evans, a well-known Welsh actor, might be a surprise addition to the list of gay actors for some. Despite having a prolific career and multiple roles to his name, Evans has typically kept his personal life under wraps. But when it was time to make a public statement, he chose to disclose his sexuality during a feature for Gay Times magazine. Currently, his partner is Jon Kortajarena, a model hailing from Spain. Like numerous relationships, theirs too has seen ups and downs over the years, and it continues to be the same to this day.
Ryan Murphy & David Miller
The relationship between Ryan Murphy and David Miller is indeed a joyous tale of love. Ryan Murphy, renowned for his remarkable and triumphant contribution to TV series such as American Horror Story, Nip/Tuck, and Glee, is a well-recognized figure. His spouse, David Miller, is a photographer whom he tied the knot with in 2012. They maintain a certain level of privacy in their life, keeping much of their personal life away from the public eye. The couple has been blessed with two sons. Both Ryan and David are continuing to excel in their respective professional fields.
Alan Cumming & Grant Shaffer
Alan Cumming, a notable figure on Broadway, is renowned for his exceptional acting capabilities. He has had a longstanding tenure in the world of film, delivering striking performances. His versatility in adjusting to the roles he plays in both movies and TV series has not gone unnoticed. Apart from acting, Cumming is a productive artist with contributions to The New York Times and The New Yorker. His sexuality has never derailed his career progression as an openly gay man, he married Grant Shaffer in 2012 and they remain together.
Kendrell Bowman & Anthony Wayne
You may not have heard about this influential duo in the theatre industry, but they certainly make a strong impact. Kendrell Bowman, a theatre director, began dating Broadway actor Anthony Wayne in 2014. Their mutual affection and dedication to their craft have united them in numerous professional projects and partnerships. Those who are familiar with them are astounded by their incredible synergy, in a manner that’s difficult to put into words. By maintaining the sincerity of their partnership and combining their efforts, they manage to produce even more spectacular outcomes.
Johnny Weir & Victor Voronov
Johnny Weir, a renowned ice skater who gained fame after his remarkable performance in the Olympics, also transitioned into becoming a television personality. Following his rise to stardom, he met Victor Voronov, a Georgetown alumni, who eventually became his husband. They tied the knot in a civil ceremony thoughtfully arranged on New Year’s Eve in New York City. However, despite appearing to be a dream come true, their marriage didn’t prove to be as successful as hoped. A mere four years later, they found themselves in the midst of a highly publicized divorce.
Rufus Wainwright & Jorn Weisbrodt
Here’s a fascinating pair who’ve put specific measures in place to improve their family existence. Singer-songwriter and composer Rufus Wainwright began a relationship with Jorn Weisbrodt and they remained together for five years. Then, they made the decision to elevate their relationship status and tied the knot. However, their union includes a third individual, Leonard Cohen’s daughter Lorca Cohen, with whom they maintain a unique co-parenting relationship. The trio collectively parents Viva Katherine Wainwright Cohen.
Jane Lynch & Lara Embry
Jane Lynch, renowned for her performances in Glee and The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel, is a celebrated actress who has publicly identified herself as homosexual. She found her partner, Lara Embry, a clinical psychologist, during a 2009 fundraiser event. They consummated their relationship in a 2010 Massachusetts wedding ceremony. Unfortunately, after three years of their marital journey, they announced their decision to divorce and follow individual paths.
Cat Cora & Nicole Erhlich
Cat Cora is one individual who has openly embraced her homosexuality since her public declaration. Even amidst global discussions about being gay and coming out, she was in a marriage that lasted for nearly two decades. Although it wasn’t a lifelong partnership, she found love again two years post-separation with director and producer Nicole Ehrlich. Cat and Nicole elevated their relationship and tied the knot in a beautiful ceremony in Santa Barbara in 2018. Presently, they’re navigating their journey together successfully.
Lance Bass & Michael Turchin
NSYNC, a globally renowned boy band from the 90s, counts Lance Bass among its members. Bass began a relationship with his now-partner Michael Turchin, a painter, in 2011. Their bond strengthened over time, leading them to wed in 2014. Uniquely, their wedding, which marked the first live broadcasted same-sex marriage, was aired on cable television.
The wedding also carried a title and was marketed as Lance Loves Michael: The Lance Bass Wedding.
Sam Smith & Brandon Flynn
This renowned partnership has always been in the limelight, given the global recognition of both individuals. The esteemed pop vocalist, Sam Smith, is openly gay and discovered his other half in the film sector. His partner is none other than Brandon Flynn, a widely appreciated actor who rose to fame for his role in the hit television series, 11 Reasons Why. The two declared their relationship to the world in September 2017. Unfortunately, their love story was short-lived, with the relationship concluding after just nine months. They then decided to part ways and embarked on their separate journeys.
Queen Latifah & Jeanette Jenkins
Queen Latifah is recognized as one of the most gifted African American actresses in Hollywood, with an impressive acting range. She has been a staple on television for many years, playing roles of various sizes. Her personal life included boldly coming out as gay, with her heart being captured by her personal trainer, Jeanette Jenkins, in 2002. Their romantic relationship, which led to an engagement, lasted for 6 years until their eventual parting in 2014.
Jillian Michaels & Heidi Rhoades
The bonds of one particular relationship didn’t stand the trial of time. Renowned fitness trainer Jillian Michaels discovered love exactly where you might expect – in the gym. The woman who captivated her was the celebrated yoga instructor, Heidi Rhoades. They bumped into each other in 2009 and for a while, everything appeared to be alright. In 2018, however, after a nearly nine-year-long relationship, both announced they had decided to part ways. This was officially confirmed, marking an end to their shared path, despite having two children together.
Robin Roberts & Amber Laign
Robin Roberts, the familiar face and host of Good Morning America, made waves in the news when she publicly declared her homosexuality. The disclosure came when she unveiled her longtime partner Amber Laign, a professional massage therapist. The couple, who have been together since 2005, maintain a robust relationship that has withstood the test of time and seems set on a path toward something even more significant. As for Roberts, she seems to be managing the situation well, with no apparent impact on her career.
Samira Wiley & Lauren Morelli
The universally acknowledged truth that love can blossom anywhere is particularly true for those who share a workspace. This was exactly the situation with Samira Wiley and Lauren Morelli. The paths of Morelli, a writer, and Wiley, an actress, crossed on the set of Orange is the new black. Notably, shortly after ending her two-year marriage with her husband, Morelli publicly revealed her sexuality. Before long, she declared her romantic relationship with Wiley. Their union was formally sealed in March 2017, in Palm Spring, where the duo tied the knot.
Chely Wright & Lauren Blitzer
Concealing your sexual orientation can be a significant strain, particularly in your 20s when you’re unsure of your desires and overall feelings. Chely Wright experienced this complex issue to a greater extent. While navigating this self-discovery phase, she dated country singer Brad Paisley, and it was during this time that she realized she was attracted to women. This realization solidified her identity. She eventually connected with the LGBT activist, Lauren Blitzer, with whom she got engaged in 2011. They married in 2013 and have two sons together.
Sara Gilbert & Linda Perry
Sara Gilbert found her true self and envisioned her future with women while she was in a relationship with a man. She was involved romantically with John Galecki, her fellow actor in Roseanne and Big Bang Theory. Afterwards, she began a relationship with TV producer Ali Adler which lasted a decade. However, Adler didn’t turn out to be her lifetime partner. In 2014, Gilbert married Linda Perry, who is the leading lady of the band 4 Non Blondes. They are currently relishing their marital bliss.
Barry Manilow & Garry Kief
Venturing into a romantic relationship with your boss can have its pros and cons. The majority of people have discovered that the disadvantages tend to overshadow the benefits, often negatively impacting their professional lives. Nonetheless, famed musician Barry Manilow wagered on this gamble, choosing to engage in a romantic relationship with his manager and fully commit to it. Their relationship progressed to such an extent that they had a clandestine wedding in 2014 and made every possible effort to maintain their privacy. To date, no additional information has been disclosed.
Nate Berkus & Jeremiah Brent
In the same professional realm, it’s not uncommon for individuals to cultivate close bonds which sometimes blossom into romantic relationships. This held true for Nate Berkus, a renowned interior designer and television figure, and his partner Jeremiah Brent, who is also in the interior design field. Their paths crossed in 2012 and they began dating. A year later, in 2013, they announced their engagement and by May 2014, they had tied the knot. Today, the charming couple is blessed with two children – a son and a daughter, reinforcing the deep love shared between these two creative spirits.
Brian Hargrove & David Hyde Pierce
This couple is living proof that love knows no age. The man you may recognize as Dr. Niles Crane from Frasier, the role that brought David Hyde Pierce his greatest fame. Known for his personal privacy throughout his life and career, Pierce grappled with his sexual identity in silence. After years of living under such circumstances, he finally revealed his truth and openly declared his relationship with writer and producer Brian Hargrove. From that moment, things became easier. They tied the knot in October 2008 and have since been relishing their life together.
RuPaul & Georges LeBar
If you keep up with the television industry and its vast array of shows, you’re likely familiar with RuPaul. This acclaimed drag queen is also a well-known TV figure who is openly gay. He encountered his significant other in 1994. His union with Australian artist Georges LeBar originated in a New York nightclub and solidified into marriage. They joyfully exchanged vows in January of 2017 and are now enjoying their blissful wedded life. This couple stands as evidence that relationships kindled in nightclubs can stand the test of time.
Cheyenne Jackson & Jason Landau
Cheyenne Jackson is a celebrated actor and theater performer who has garnered fame and acknowledgments on Broadway as well as in movies. In 2013, he crossed paths with his life partner, Jason Landau. Their relationship swiftly progressed; after their first encounter in 2013, they got engaged in February the next year. However, they didn’t stop there and tied the knot later that same year in September. Fast forward to October 2016, they were blessed with a pair of twins. To this day, the pair relishes in their happily-ever after, cherishing their family life.
John Benjamin Hickey & Jeffrey Richman
John Benjamin Hickey is another renowned actor who has openly expressed his sexuality. His professional life has been diverse with him having taken on multiple roles in various movies, television, and stage shows. He is romantically linked with Jeffery Richman, a popular television writer renowned for his work on Modern Family. Despite limiting public insight into their personal life, the couple remains together, maintaining their status as a private pair.
Matt Bomer & Simon Halls
Matt Bomer, recognized for his standout role in the TV show “The White Collar,” portrays a charming art thief with a knack for charming women at first sight. However, his real-life preferences lean towards the same sex. He tied the knot with his publicist partner, Simon Halls, in 2011. The couple managed to keep their nuptials under wraps until 2014. Bomer would eventually disclose that their wedding was an intimate occasion, attended only by their nearest and dearest friends and family. The couple took pride in their decision and happily embraced the overwhelming support they received.
Gary Janetti & Brad Goreski
Brad Goreski, a celebrated TV figure and renowned fashion stylist, is known for his lively personality and engaging manner. His views on fashion are authentic and forthright, openly expressing his thoughts. His spouse, Gary Janetti, gained fame as a scriptwriter for popular TV shows “Will and Grace” and “Family Guy”. Together, they form a remarkable pair who tied the knot in 2017. They sustain their relationship, despite commuting between their residences in New York and Los Angeles.
Raven Symoné & AzMarie Livingston
There are certain relationships destined for success and others that are not, and unfortunately, this particular one falls into the latter category. Raven Symone, a former child actress who later transitioned into the role of a talk show host on The View, publicly disclosed her homosexuality and soon after introduced her partner. The woman in question was none other than model, actress, DJ, and singer AzMarie Livingston. For many years, they were engaged in a committed relationship, but sadly, they eventually decided to part ways.
Kate McKinnon & Jackie Abbott
Kate McKinnon is a multi-talented individual with skills in comedy, acting, and improv. Despite not initially gaining much fame in the entertainment industry, her breakthrough moment came when she became part of Saturday Night Live, propelling her to a moderate level of stardom. Openly a lesbian, she began a relationship with her existing partner, Jackie Abbott, in 2017. The couple, intriguingly, does not have a presence on social media, preferring to maintain their privacy. They have consistently prioritized their personal lives remaining personal, establishing clear boundaries to protect their privacy.
Heather Matarazzo & Heather Turman
Heather Matarazzo is predominantly renowned for her standout performance as Princess Mia’s best friend in the film Princess Diaries, portraying the quirky teenager, Lily. At the time, few would have predicted that the youthful actress would grow up to seek a same-sex relationship. However, she found love with the comedian and author, Heather Turman, to whom she became engaged in January 2018. They tied the knot later that year in November, and their marital status remains the same to this day.
Chris Hughes & Sean Eldridge
Chris Hughes is a consequential figure as one of the co-founders of the distinctive social media site, Facebook. He collaborated with his college roommate, Mark Zuckerberg, to generate a never-before-seen innovation. Openly embracing his homosexuality, Hughes was first noticed in public with political activist Sean Eldridge during the first state dinner orchestrated by President Barack Obama in 2009. Subsequently, the duo developed their relationship and got hitched in June of 2012 in a ceremony in Shokan, New York. Their marital journey is still ongoing as they continue to live together.